Why wouldn’t the car move as much as the paper clip??
INERTIA.
Massive things have more mass (duh!), more gravitational force, and more inertia. If you think that car was hard to move with a flick of your fingers, just imagine how tough it would be for the apple’s gravitational field to yank the Earth up to it. Not gonna happen!
One more question:
Is the acceleration of the apple dropping to the Earth
the acceleration of the Earth up to the apple?
Greater than, of course! You can definitely observe that.
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